To Heal A Broken Heart

You might find this post annoying but let's face ok.. Biarla orang nak cakap ape.. I just think that all teenagers should read and know this..


Ok, so here's something that you should know when you're heartbroken:

There's NO right way to heal your heart. It just did. Jika datang tanpa diundang, pergi pun tak perlu diusir..

Kadang2 kita rasa kita dah buat semua benda utk move on.. Delete gambar, delete number, block social network.. Semua dah.. But memories?? Feelings?? You have to bring yourself back to reality that you can't fix a broken heart that way..

Kita boleh nak elakkan dari buat or pergi tempat yang reminds us of that person, but let's admit it, tak pergi, tak buat ape ape pun still teringat..

Dah kalau hati dah suka, jahat mana pun orang tu, susah macam mana pun keadaan, memang kita nampak dia je.. Cinta tu buta.. Hahaha..

I know it hurts.. I've been there.. I'm still here actually.. I'm not going to share my story though.. It's kind of.. I don't know..

"Aku nak move on, tapi aku tak nak move on tapi aku tahu aku kena"

That phrase always haunting me.. Kadang2 rasa macam nak marah every single person yang sebut nama dia or cerita pasal dia.. But I know that it's not their fault that I have to go through this.. In my case, I'm responsible over what happened to me even though it's not my fault.. So memang banyak la penyesalan berlaku.. Kenapa la buat macam tu.. Kenapa la buat macam nie..


Dekat kptm nie, aku ada mia je tempat aku kongsi suka duka.. But I already reached a stage where aku dah penat sampai aku kadang2 terdiam.. Sebab apa lagi yg mia tak tahu pasal aku sedih?? Part sedih mana lagi yang aku tak cerita?? Tapi klau sedih tak terhingga tu, aku ulang balik je citer.. ahhah..

Tak salah nak bersedih.. In fact, mana ada orang tak sedih bila heart broken.. Seriously x sedih?? Tapi berpada pada la..

Like me, aku sedih tu sedih jugak lagi sedih bila aku sedar yang hidup "that someone" tu normal tak effect ape pun..
Tapi ada time aku try tak layan.. Fake my laugh or smile kadang2..

So, it's not wrong to be sad.. Just don't go overboard.. Cry when you feel like crying but remember to wipe away your tears, try to laugh and smile even though you know you're faking it sometimes.. And try to socialize with your friend like usual.. Just try to act normal..

And remember, what might be working for someone else might to be working for you.. Tak salah nak google or cari nasihat kawan nak tahu cara nak heal your heart.. Tapi tak yah la caya sangat..

Just try to act normal je sebenar point of the story.. Sebab heartbroken nie memang susah nak cari cure..

Nanite,
With love,
Sarah